by Susan J. Elliott | Jul 10, 2019 | codependence, codependency, featured, Getting Back Out There, Getting Past Your Breakup, healthy relationships, independence, interdependence, relationships, single, singletude, standards
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette Book Group 2009)Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup...
by Susan J. Elliott | Jul 8, 2019 | abuse, abusive relationships, crazy making, featured, gaslighting, Getting Past Your Breakup, mind control, mind fck, narcissist, narcissistic personality disorder, Psychology Today
Backstory to this post: This is one of the classic GPYB posts and I am reposting for a new FB group member who never heard the term. It’s all about narcissistic abuse. I originally wrote this for Psychology Today. As I bring the GPYB website back on-line,...
by Susan J. Elliott | Jul 3, 2019 | abusive relationships, featured, Getting Past Your Breakup, relationships, splitting, truth
Backstory to this post: Originally published in Psychology Today and a Facebook group member requested the repost by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette...
by Susan J. Elliott | Jul 2, 2019 | children and breakups, codependency, communication, confusion, couple's therapy, divorce, featured, Getting Back Out There, Getting Past Your Breakup, reconciliation
Backstory to this post: Reposting in response to questions/comments in the Facebook Group Copyright @ Susan J. Elliott “The only hope is no hope.” ~ George Costanza Most of the time we don’t talk about reconciliations. I find that there is a small...
by Susan J. Elliott | Jun 29, 2019 | breakup, confusion, featured, Getting Back Out There, Getting Past Your Breakup, identity, interests, journaling, observation
Requested Repost:After my first few post-divorce breakups, I started to tell people that “anyone is capable of anything at any time.” It’s not to be a pessimist. It’s not to turn you into a suspicious crazy person. It’s just to make you...
by Susan J. Elliott | Jun 29, 2019 | featured, Getting Past Your Breakup
Breakup Grief Endsby Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed.© 2004-2019 Backstory to this post: I wrote this post in 2004 and have published it several times over the years with edits. This is the last edit in 2018: Breakup Grief EndsBut only IF: if you do your work, it ends....