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Since 2005, GPYB has published over 2000 articles
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Being the Identified Patient or Scapegoat
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette Book Group 2009)Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup...
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Public Aloneness
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette Book Group 2009)Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup...
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How To Prepare for a Healthy Relationship After a Big Breakup
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette Book Group 2009)Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup...
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10 Ways To Tell If You’re Being Gaslighted
Backstory to this post: This is one of the classic GPYB posts and I am reposting for a new FB group member who never heard the term. It's all about narcissistic abuse. I originally wrote this for Psychology Today. As I bring the GPYB website back on-line, I'm trying...
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Splitting: The Mental Habit That Keeps You from Getting over a Breakup
Backstory to this post: Originally published in Psychology Today and a Facebook group member requested the repost by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette...
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Reconciliation: A Means or an End?
Backstory to this post: Reposting in response to questions/comments in the Facebook GroupCopyright @ Susan J. Elliott"The only hope is no hope." ~ George Costanza Most of the time we don't talk about reconciliations. I find that there is a small percentage of couples...
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You Are So Not Who I Thought You Were
Requested Repost:After my first few post-divorce breakups, I started to tell people that "anyone is capable of anything at any time." It's not to be a pessimist. It's not to turn you into a suspicious crazy person. It's just to make you aware that it's not...
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Breakup Grief Ends. Bank on it. Believe in It.
Breakup Grief Endsby Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed.© 2004-2019 Backstory to this post: I wrote this post in 2004 and have published it several times over the years with edits. This is the last edit in 2018: Breakup Grief EndsBut only IF: if you do your work, it ends....
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Replaced by the Ex in a Very Public Way?
I run this post quite often and it's a much requested repost. I've done podcasts on it and still people ask for it. This is a combination of the last repost on this and the latest podcast. Replaced by the Ex on Social Media? Time to #GetOverIt! by Susan J. Elliott,...
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MLT Grief and Attachment Series
One of the most important parts of the GPYB program is addressing unresolved grief and loss as well as difficulty with rejection due to attachment issues. Here are the MLT podcasts on grief and attachment There is also a bonus attachment episode and a bonus grief...
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Five Ways To Combat Post-Breakup Obsession
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Author: Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You (Hachette Book Group 2009)Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup...
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Sometimes It’s Just Not It
Requested repost. Backstory to this post: This is definitely NOT one of the popular posts on the blog though it's been requested many times since it originally appeared. I first wrote it in February 2008. For those new to the program, Michael took sick in September...
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