Category Archives: GPYB3

Mail. We Get Mail on Wanting Them To KNow

Requested Repost. Reader Email. I’m always amazed at what posts my readers remember. They ask for articles I barely remember writing, but here it is. This post is a mashup of several previous posts. I talk about my ex in … Continue reading

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Requested Repost: Betrayal

Betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~ Steven Dietz Betrayal may be described as simply the breaking of trust. It’s when we trust someone and they break that trust (and usually our hearts at the same time).

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A New Year…a New You

The annual GPYB New Year’s Post. We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to … Continue reading

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Splitting Post

Someone just mentioned splitting, I go into this in greater detail in the workbook and have some exercises to work on it, and I touch on it some in both books, but splitting makes it much harder to get over … Continue reading

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On Rising Up From the Ashes

This was one of the first posts I wrote on the blog. I wrote the long saga of how the blog became a book over the past few days (under To Publication under pages, not that I expect anyone to … Continue reading

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Splitting

I know I just posted this, but had a requested repost from the Facebook page. I go into this in greater detail in the workbook and have some exercises to work on it, and I touch on it some in … Continue reading

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Forgiveness of Self and Others

Forgiveness of others starts after we do our grief work and our Relationship Inventory and our examination of the relationship and feel the spectrum of emotions. It does not start right away. Forgiveness of others is the end, rather than … Continue reading

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Another Splitting Post

I have written about 8-10 “splitting” posts. Here is one that was requested. I was in a long-term relationship that I’ve written about on here. We were in a 4 year relationship and it was a pretty nice relationship but … Continue reading

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Your Right To Swing Your Arm…

…ends at the tip of my nose. Reposting this as I mentioned it in comments. Since I wrote this (about 4 or 5 years ago), I’ve gotten much better at not responding to this type of thing. I’ve become almost … Continue reading

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Splitting

I go into this in greater detail in the workbook and have some exercises to work on it, and I touch on it some in GBOT, but splitting makes it much harder to get over a breakup. What is “splitting” … Continue reading

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A New Year…a New You

The annual GPYB New Year’s Post. We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to … Continue reading

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A New Year, A New You

The annual GPYB New Year’s Post. I will start a new Check-in Thread on January 1. We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. … Continue reading

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Transformation Continued

Courage is reclaiming your life after a devastating event robs you of your confidence and self-esteem. It is facing tomorrow with a firm resolve to reach deep within yourself to find another strength, another talent…It is taking yourself to another … Continue reading

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Searching and Pining

Requested request Pining is the subjective and emotional component of urge to search for the lost object. ~ Colin Murray Parkes Colin Murray Parkes was a grief expert who studied the phases of grief and the behavior in those who … Continue reading

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Narcissists, Abusers, Psychopaths and other Lunatics

I have spent a lot of time in the past few weeks speaking to people (not just readers and clients, but reporters and other media people) about all these topics. I’m putting some of the links here for new readers. … Continue reading

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