Sticky’d for those who are new about registering and posting your first comments.
I know it’s not straightforward. Go to any post and click Comments. On the bottom of the screen is a comments box that says “You must be logged in to comment” with logged in hyerlinked. Click the logged in hyperlink. On THAT screen it will say Register or Lost Your Password. Click Register. You should be good to go. Your first comment will go to moderation to avoid spammers. Any comment with a hyperlink (no matter how long you’ve been on the blog) will go to comment jail. So please use hyperlinks sparingly in your comments to avoid extended stints in comment jail.
If you are in moderation and keep posting, I WILL get to your comment. If you keep reposting, it will NOT show up and the spam filter will flag you as a spammer. Any issues, please email me at gpyb DOT com AT gmail DOT com. THANK YOU!
PS.The best place to introduce yourself is in the Check-in thread. If you check-in at the end of one, feel free to copy and paste into the new one. It’s perfectly okay to duplicate your posting if it gets buried and doesn’t get replies. We’re here for support…and don’t want anyone to feel slighted.
If you are not yet approved and post multiple comments, you will be flagged as a spammer and I only clean out the spam filter every few days. My apologies but that is how the spam filter works and 99 percent of the time it keeps this site safe which is its job.
And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE – no matter where you are in the healing process – please help and support each other especially during the holiday season. THANKS ALL!
A hurt shared is halved, a joy shared is doubled. Please share your hurt and help others find their joy…it will be there!!! Please take care of each other!